2 Oh, dear Jajie, I'm deeply touched by your post here. You know it even made me ponder over some troublesome situations in my life...it made me stronger. Thanks a lot.
3 they say, we are to have some serious problems along our life as a test of our will and spirit, but anyway it's very sad when we have physical crosses... :(((
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1 Oh dear, what a sad story. I believe the faith in God and good relationships within one's family are 2 significant aspects of real happiness.