3 You’re right we should view things in a sober light. I think it’s some kind of a test from above when we idealize a person be it even loved one, then he/she leaves you or is taken away by some inconceivable reason. And all we have to do is to accept this loss and go further...
9 points 
1 Any break-up is a kinda stress, be it the first love of your life or the fifth one...