2 Oh yeah, Wiz, this pattern is also called "reading thoughts" in NLP. By the way, these magicians Grindler and Bendler also developed some applicable techniques for coping with this and other kinds of universal transformation processes...
4 I totally agree with you. You must be open and sincere with your bfs/gfs to let them know what you want and demand the same sincerity from them also.
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1 All the people dream to read thoughts of other people...