6 Seems like you are giving the blame to yourself and still wanting to think the best of her. It is time to give the responsibility to the responsible individual, male or female. If it was a mutual breakup, then you need to let yourself feel good about getting out of it. If she left for good reason, then work on your issues. If you left then let it be for why you did not want to be with her. If she treated you like crap, then say so. We all have to quit trying to make what is real into what we think it should be. We all need to accept reality, forgive ourselves and stay away from relationships that are bad for us. Very few relationships these days start with both people on the same wavelength. Either one or both are just in it for their own seperate individual reasons and have no belief that it will last.
It only takes one to tangle,One person can mess it up. But it takes two to tango. It takes cooperation and true familiarity to dance together so intimately.
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6 Seems like you are giving the blame to yourself and still wanting to think the best of her. It is time to give the responsibility to the responsible individual, male or female. If it was a mutual breakup, then you need to let yourself feel good about getting out of it. If she left for good reason, then work on your issues. If you left then let it be for why you did not want to be with her. If she treated you like crap, then say so. We all have to quit trying to make what is real into what we think it should be. We all need to accept reality, forgive ourselves and stay away from relationships that are bad for us. Very few relationships these days start with both people on the same wavelength. Either one or both are just in it for their own seperate individual reasons and have no belief that it will last.
It only takes one to tangle,One person can mess it up. But it takes two to tango. It takes cooperation and true familiarity to dance together so intimately.