1 As my point of view, gal you should be patient. He is the man he should be busy. Deprive his job and you will deprive his man's spirit. Do you want such "man"? You first will deny him.
Sorry but it is just my opinion. ;)
3 Hi Moggie! I had similar situation not long ago. I was mad abt him and abt our pastime together. His work was the only his pretext, and it continued untill I broke with him. It was hard & desicive step but it was a test for our feelings. He came a month later and said he need me badly and that he was stupid. But I admit that he might not come back than. So, may be your boyfriend needs a test? It's up to you, anyway)) Good luck!
4 test him if he likes(loves) you... may be you waste your time with him... but at the same time may be he trully loves you...so try to understand him, may be he works so hard just to be independent man and want to be with you indeed and just he tries to build future for both of you!!!
5 All this is just BS. Remember, Live without Sex, that what "humilates your mind, and viloates your nature", well men's nature is no different from your own, except fot it is even more lustful, ot to say lewd or even lascivious (pick one). Well, now just think over again, i know you know what i mean.
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1 As my point of view, gal you should be patient. He is the man he should be busy. Deprive his job and you will deprive his man's spirit. Do you want such "man"? You first will deny him.
Sorry but it is just my opinion. ;)