2 My dear, it sounds a little bit fierce, but there are no anything ideal on our planet. But not everything is so bad as you think. People carve their happines out by themselves. If you have problmes in your family (sounds terrible, but
se la vi...), try to look at this from another hand. If he takes everything as due, doesn't notice your everyday care about your family, doesn't love you as you think, as you feel... May be you just don't satisfy him... I don't know for sure, just don't take my words too seriously. May be in your everyday household chores he ceased to see in you the woman he had married to... I don't know... May be is just thankless regarding you, beacause it happens...
Ther's a good saying, authored by the great Russian poet A.S Pushkin, "The less you love a woman, the more she loves you". It's up to you with any conclusions.
Look, anyway it's not a reason to despare, cheer up Escargot, Life's go on.
1 Hope lucky star won't turn back toward you and you will have that ideal family!