1 You are absoultely right! I also had such situation and the only thing to do was to forget him as I had hopeless situation (he is married and has two children). But if you have at least one chance to be with him, you should do something!
3 May be it sounds a little bit cruelly,,. but I think you should forget him for keeps. It’s pointless to suffer and hope that someday you two will be together. If you don’t like him now – there is not the ghost of a chance you will like him in the future, sorry…
Otherwise he can let you down.
Unrequited love is one of the most horrible things in people relations.
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1 You are absoultely right! I also had such situation and the only thing to do was to forget him as I had hopeless situation (he is married and has two children). But if you have at least one chance to be with him, you should do something!