1 Partially you are right, if you are not fully confident in a person, you shoudn't tell your beloved obscure stories of your past. But as for ability of women to give advice, I would argue with u!
3 IMHO one should draw a line between being frank in the present and telling some shameful stories of the past. The latter is needless, but the former is an essential part of strong relationships...
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1 Partially you are right, if you are not fully confident in a person, you shoudn't tell your beloved obscure stories of your past. But as for ability of women to give advice, I would argue with u!