Having just recently had my heart broken by a guy...these are the ways in which i find the strength to go on with my life and being really happy.

1. Know that things happen for a reason, you're sure to see it down the road...and you'll be glad it did happen like that.

2. You be the flame, let someone else be the moth. You can do better and deserve better.

3. Don't forget to appreciate having had some good and happy times with your heart-breaker...don't belittle them, remember you were part of the moment too...you'd only hurt yourself by thinking it didn't mean anything at the time; at the time it did (for both of you).

4. Remember there are people around you who do love you, take a good hard look.. you'll see.