I think that men, choosing a wife with a beautiful face and figure, but ignoring all other qualities of her, are deeply mistaken.
No doubt, you should find your soul mate attractive, he/she should please your eyes! But here rely on your own taste rather than on your friends' words.
IMHO the most successful relationships are built upon honesty, trust and candor. Ignoring this detail is equivalent to building a sandcastle, which is too short to exist…
Respect is another important trait. Agree, it's terrible if your woman/man lets you down, especially in public. No, it won't do!
So, be wise and don't be attracted by appearance only, otherwise you will repeat the story of a moth, flying to the fire. Be clever to understand the soul of your soul mate!