I am a southern male born and raised.. I am also, what is known as a southern gentleman.. I was taught to ALWAYS respect a woman.. It takes two to make babies but only one to bring it into the world, A WOMAN!! Without a woman we wouldn't exist..
I always show respect to a woman reguardless of age.. If a woman disrespects me, I walk away with a smile..
If you want to charm a lady, respect her.. Open her car door whenever possible.. Open it for her to get out, unless she is just too fast for you.. Say yes ma'am and no ma'am, until she ask you to stop or you become better acquainted.. Always open doors for her, pull out her chair.. You will always allow a true lady to enter the room before you.. Not because she is better, but, because you respect her.. These are just simple things men take for granted, especially young men..
Admiration is also another way to charm a lady.. When you first meet a lady, the small talk is going on, job, education and such.. Whatever she has done that