People are interesting creatures! They think that can read others' thoughts… Moreover, they are inclined to ascribe an ability to read their thought to people around... Don't treat my words literally… Instead think, we often want that, say, our beloved would guess what we want at this very moment…Then complain to our friends - he should have guessed it!!! While the man even doesn't suspect about your desires and as a result disappoints us by his "wrong" behavior… Furthermore, remember, how often you hear "I know it by your eyes! I feel it! I guessed!» But in fact the person is far from really guessing something… Personally I came across such situations when I was told "I know what you think", "I learnt your character" and the girl looked very proud of her so-called insight… However she was wrong…
So my idea is stopping this silly guessing others thought, esp. making others get to know your thoughts. You can hint at something, or to say it in some soft manner, but don't keep silent