It's impossible to live without quarrels! The psychologist's opinion is: It's really important not to avoid the quarrel but to control it.
I would like to suggest you some rules of "correct quarrel".
The first one is not to use painful memories and themes. It's possible to destroy all the relationships only with one word related to the past (I mean unpleasant past).
Don't even touch on his parents and other relatives in your fight. Believe me, it's much better to tell something bad about him than about his dear mother! Actually it's better not to
.use bad words at all!
You should never compare him with his or your friends! It's the biggest mistake you can ever do!
Try to argy-bargy without any witnesses. This is your private life!
And the last one: make it up with your lovely as soon as it's possible! Don't leave it for tomorrow, do it now! I wish you all the best! Have a good luck in love!