I want to offer you a ritual "My Ideal Partner". Take a piece of paper and divide it into two parts. On the left side write all the positive traits which you want to see in your future partner. I advise you don't involve such epithets like: "slender, handsome, brunet, owning a large villa near the ocean" or "beautiful, blonde, and dreaming about model's career".
It would be better if you involve in your list such traits like he should like to travel, sport, he should be calm, soft, silent, or vice versa, aggressive, energetic, cheerful and etc.
It is your partner and you choose him. Don't hurry to compose the list. You can devote some days to it. Add every day a new trait.

On the right side write negative traits which you can stand. For example your partner could be a great fan of fishing, football, tennis, hockey and etc. as women like to talk to phone with their friend, spend a lot of time in the shops and etc. In the end we are all people and have