I usually feel free when I meet a new person.
I also can tell you my secret- I know a lot of different tricks, which women like to use on the first dating. But there are also women considering the first meeting to be a very difficult problem, they don't know how to solve it and they do not make their choice- a guy makes it for them

They always ask themselves "What should I do to charm him? What is more important for him?"
Well, I'll try to give you some ideas, if you belong to this type of women.

First of all, you should be frank, you shouldn't bore him with thousands of questions, though you should be able to ask certain questions to know his personality and show your interest in him.
If you first meet him in a company, try not to surpass all other girls, who also want to be with this guy, because it sometimes looks like praising yourself and boasting, and he may dislike it. Try to be yourself, men like when the girl is shy to certain extend as they like to conquer -