My boyfriend seems to really enjoy our sex but I always have to be the initiator. I can count on one hand the number of times he has made the first move. I don't know why. Once we start making love he really gets into it which means that the problem isn't in me. Why do I always have to be the agressor?
Once it hit me that he might be lazy, but I wonder how you can remain lazy if you are burning with desire. I realise that the whole seduction thing can be exhausting but it's crossing the lines. I have to light up a fire under his butt to get him into it and I must say I don't like this role. Is there a chance to change that?