would she like you to escort her there and back.. OK the dj plays a couple of slow songs, watch how she reacts to them and then ask if she would like to dance.. Do NOT get too much into her space while dancing unless she moves closer to you.. Keep talking as you dance, maybe if you are close enough sing in her ear softly.. If she likes this you will notice her approval by the way she moves.. If she approves and shows interest, as the song ends look her in the eye and ask, "may I kiss you please?" You'll either get a yes or a no.. If you get a yes, don't take it to mean she wants to rush to your house and get busy.. She just said she was interested in kissing you, so don't get too intense with it.. Gentle lean into her face, as she should lean to meet you.. Hold her face in your hands, as your lips touch... Oh BTW make sure your lips are moist and not dry... Kiss her slowly, softly, lips slightly seperated (NO tongue) Do not kiss too long she will let you know when to stop.. You have