Each person has his/her own preferences, outlook on life, temperament. So, disagreement between individuals is just inevitable, what leads at best to constructive quarrels and at worst - to conflicts.
It goes without saying that if you are a calm and peaceful person, the quantity of conflicts and scandals in your life will be minimal. But sadly, you won't be able to keep off them all the time.
So, let me give you some useful ideas on how to secure yourself from conflicts' impact:
Try not to be involved into a conflict "with all your heart", looking at it philosophically, as if from the outside.
Take words, said to you in a burst of anger, easy. They are far from being objective, coz were uttered rashly.
Don't judge yourself strictly for your behaviour at the moment of quarrelling, you were under the fit of passion influence and your conduct can be easily explained by it.
Don't fill your life with constant recollections about unpleasant moments of the conflict. The past