First of all, turn to his sensuous side.

Be clear about what makes you feel special, especially if your desires tend to change. If jewelry gifts once did it, but now all you want is a quiet dinner with him, let him know.

Inspire a repeat performance.

First, set the scene for a little intimacy - whether it's a picnic or cocktails by candlelight. Tell him how much you are enjoying yourself just in case he doesn't get the hint. He'll be encouraged to repeat these actions once he sees how happy you are.

Pay attention.

You may have very different ideas of what romance actually is. For most men, it's often looking after their partner. So while you're pining for flowers, he's lovingly repairs your door lock. So tell him what you want but also appreciate the sweet gestures he comes up with on his own.

Guys like to please their partners but they also like to be treated nicely in return. Don't be selfish and pay him a couple compliments emphasizing his