If you dated one guy and he turned out to be somewhat different in marriage it's not a reason to ask for divorce. Simply turn this difference into your own perspective. Here's a list of his possible flaws that are quite easy to handle with...

1.He can't gracefully say how much he loves you, saying something like "You're my cookie" or "You're my fluffy round bunny" instead.

If he says something like that it means that he doesn't like those sweet girlly talks and speaks like male. If he doesn't express his feelings in any way you have a great chance to fulfill this missing part of your relationship by doing it yourself! You are a woman and it's more about your role.

2.If he's a fan of order and is a clean freak, if he gets crazy at the sight of your bra hanging down the fridge, this type has some advantages.

He's secure and will never forget to lock the door, code the folder with porno movies on the computer to keep you from swoon. He will always remember your birthday date