I like a guy. He is a very smart and attractive person. I feel that we could have relationship with him. But unfortunately, we have nothing in common with him. We have different friends, companies, different kind of work. But I like him. I don't want to be disappointed again. Tree weeks ago I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. So, I don't want to feel depressed and being sad again.

People, could you suggest me some ideas how to attract this guy? Is it ok if a girl makes an attempt first?